10dp5dt and BFN

I'm so sorry to bring you all down while your celebrating your exciting news with BFP, but I am gutted.... I am struggling to stay positive for Tuesdays BT but if I've already got a BFN why bother???? I can't do this again, I can't handle being so hormonal and don't even get me started on the cost.
I just can't do it, I can't put me and my husband through the heartache. I can't handle putting my mind or my body through this process AGAIN!
I know this is such a bad attitude and there are people out there that have been through worse but I am at the end of my rope and I fear if this doesn't work, I won't have the courage to do it again :(
By: alcsma
Member since Dec 31, 2011
Posted: on Jun 23, 2012
Sorry your having a tough time, please take care of yourself and remember that it's okay to be sad or have the negative feelings.. Your human and this is a very tough journey that takes so much out of us emotionally and financially. Allow yourself to grieve and them pick yourself back up and make your game plan. Hoping tomorrows better for you (((hugs)))
By: Huubycantwait
Member since Apr 26, 2011
Posted: on Jun 23, 2012
God has a plan for us. Be patient and know that im thinking about you. Prayers your way.
By: sapphiregirl
Member since Aug 16, 2011
Posted: on Jun 23, 2012
Im sorry you are feeling so bad. You are not alone I think everyone of us has been exactly where you are. Doesnt make it feel better but you can pick yourself up and start again. I always felt I couldnt go on but that lasted a few days then I would just focus on the next plan of action. I have done 6 iui 1 cancelled ivf after 10 days of meds and 1 ivf bfn. I am now moving on to ivf with donor egg in nov. You will get thru it just greive when you need then look forward to your next step. Thats all you can do. It is a very hard thing but in the end you will be a better mother and love your child all the more for it!
By: Bec10
Member since Dec 06, 2010
Posted: on Jun 24, 2012
Thank you so much for your thoughts and kind words xx
By: hayleylouisecope
Member since Dec 30, 2011
Posted: on Jun 24, 2012
Don't give up love! Carry on and you will get your dream baby eventually.
Is this your 1st go? X
By: reikonaomi
Member since Jun 24, 2011
Posted: on Jun 24, 2012
Let it all out! We have all felt that way. All we can do is take one day at a time and hope that it will be our turn soon.
By: Peanutindallas
Member since Aug 01, 2011
Posted: on Jun 24, 2012
Agree w Saphire it's tough. I had one failed ivf in April now moving onto ivf w DE just because I don't have the time, money or emotions to do ivf after ivf.

In time you'll figure out a plan b. I'm grateful we live in a world full of possibilities to conceive.

Hang in there.
By: Huubycantwait
Member since Apr 26, 2011
Posted: on Jun 24, 2012
So did I, my fresh ivf failed. I think I had ohss mildly. They retrieved 30 (13 5 day embryos that made it to freeze )eggs but I practically begged RE to proceed with transfer. He agreed.finally but only transferred 1. Just got my bfp nxt cycle with FET.
I have been ttc for over a year and a half, with 3 m/c. It is very hardi to see bfn month after month. But try to stay positive and pray. That was my only support. As I dnt tell anyone really about what im going thru and wanted to be strong for hubby. Last month, I think I lost it after my bfn from ivf. I cried and cried because to me ivf was the final hope. You are putting a fertilzed egg in me and it should just attach, right? Wrong, I found out much ohsss and high.e2 could cause a hostile enviroment.
Enough about me, but after attempt after attempt, and praying to our mighty GOD, I am pregnant. Keep you head up n please dnt give up. God may not do.it when you want him to but He is always, always on time.
Im a early bfp, with hx of m/c but im optimistic. I will not give up.

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